you're not behind.
you're becoming.

This is Becoming

Becoming means learning through pain and mistakes. It means showing up when things are hard, perhaps not perfectly, but honestly. It means choosing to live with an open heart, even when it would be easier to close off.

It’s forgiving yourself. It’s forgiving others. It’s practicing gratitude every single day, not because everything is good, but because you can still see goodness in everything. It means learning to love yourself and learning to love others, sometimes at the exact same time.

Becoming is the brave decision to keep showing up, not as who you were, but as the woman you were created to be.

Whether you’re rebuilding your confidence, reconnecting with God, or just trying to feel more like yourself again, you’re in the right place.

DISCOVER YOUR STYLE

Walk through 9 fashion styles to discover what you like and what you don't. Gain clarity & confidence to build a wardrobe that reflects who you're becoming.

GRAB YOUR GUIDE

Whether you're packing for a trip, stepping into a new season, or just want to simplify your closet, this guide is your starting point.

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This fun quiz helps you discover whether your style leans timeless, trendy, or bold, so you can build a wardrobe that truly feels like you

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For the woman ready to shed what no longer fits and embrace the uniqueness that is HER. This isn’t just about rest, t’s about becoming. The woman you dream of – she’s already within you. This is your invitation to slow down, breathe deeply, and reconnect with God, yourself, and what matters most.

Becoming Her
Boutique Retreat

Meet your hosts, Marisa and Ruth - two regular women who followed God straight into the desert of New Mexico. They each lead local churches alongside their husbands and are passionate about women embracing who they were uniquely created to be.

Join the conversation as Ruth and Marisa share from their own personal experiences what Becoming HER is all about, and listen in as they interview other women who are embracing the process of becoming. 

Get ready to laugh along, shed a tear or two, and be reminded that you are not behind... you're becoming.

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With thoughtful prompts and reflections, you’ll uncover your child’s unique gifts, gain divine insight, and gently examine how your own mindset shapes the way you parent.

The Praying
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Let this easy to use Gratitude Journal be the starting point of your day and watch your mindset shift to thankfulness as you learn to focus on all you have to be thankful for.

Gratitude Journal

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The Praying Woman is a guided journal that provides prompts, questions for reflection, and prayers to ask the Holy Spirit so that you can begin to hear God’s word for your life. 

The Praying Woman

Whether you are starting off in a new relationship with Christ or have been walking with Him for years, these Journals will be a welcome addition to your own spiritual growth.

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… and the kind of girl who craves the ocean but followed God straight into the desert. I’m passionate about helping women discover who they were uniquely created to be - in their style, their story, and their spirit. I believe becoming more you is holy work, and I love creating tools that make space for that: guided journals, clarifying style guides, honest conversations, and a podcast that feels like catching up with a friend (because that's literally what it is).

Add in almond milk matchas, deep connections, and a table full of good food, and I’m all in.

Writer, speaker, confidence coach

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